How can I create the life I've always dreamed of? The way to create the life you've always dreamed of is simple. You must first raise the level of your self esteem, your own self image to a higher level. You only get what you think you deserve. You will always project out into the world a reflection of what you think of yourself. It is always a matter of what you believe you are worth. When you have a high self esteem, you will always reach for the stars because you will know that you deserve the very best that the universe has to offer.