... alot of things which look good in their own place become ugly-looking someplace else. The object, itself unchanged, is changed by your reaction to it. ....A woman's hair can be a thing of great beauty, one of her most attractive physical attributes. We are agreed. Now envision a well set dinner table, with silverware, and candle light. The soup is served. And this is the strange thing about ugly.... take just one of the beautiful hairs from the woman's head and put it in the soup and both the hair and the soup are repulsive....Almost anything out of place, anything that is not where it was meant to be, strikes us as ugly.